UU Holidays And Events in The Year

     A calendar of commonly celebrated occasions in Unitarian Universalist congregations. There are congregations that may not celebrate many of these events. There are also occasions that are important to some congregations but which are not listed here. This calendar on this page is organized by season.

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     Browse events & holidays by season: Autumn | Winter | Spring | Summer

AUTUMN
• Home Coming: Usually celebrated on the first half of September. It's the beginning of the church year for many congregations. Some congregations include the Water Communion ritual in this service. It involves congregants who have brought small amounts of water to the service, taken from special places they visited over the summer. Or, the water is collected from a rainstorm or is otherwise significant or symbolic in some way. They can pour the water into a large bowl and tell the congregation where it is from and the meaning it has for them. Themes often used in homecoming include: reunion; re-gathering; re-covenanting as a community of faith; hospitality; returning home to the church community that holds us; hope; looking forward with excitement to the church year.

• Ramadan: In 2009, it starts in late Aug. which is nine month of the Muslim calendar. The Muslim calendar is lunar. There is a 10-day shift each year, so the month of fasting from sunrise to sunset will be experienced across the seasons over the years. The observance is the holiest time of the year. Observed by more than one billion Muslims worldwide, Ramadan is a time for spiritual purification achieved through fasting, self-sacrifice and prayers. The fast is observed each day from sunrise to sunset and during that time Muslims reflect on their faith. Fasting during Ramadan is one of the five Pillars of Islam. The Islamic belief that requires that Muslims perform five central duties in order to strengthen their faith. Fasting is a measure of self control, which Muslims believe brings them closer to God. It is a way of experiencing hunger and developing sympathy for the less fortunate, and learning thankfulness and appreciation. Fasting is also seen as beneficial to the health and provides a break in the cycle of rigid habits or overindulgence.

• Teacher Dedication: Occurs on a variable autumn date. A part of the service in which religious education teachers are commissioned and blessed by the congregation to teach Sunday School and adult RE classes. The whole congregation might recite a dedication in unison.

• Autumn Equinox: In the second half of September. It's a time to remember cycles, seasons, the inevitability of change. A time to make an inner turn as nature makes a turn of Her own.

• Yom Kippur: Dates of Yom Kippur are for the Jewish Year 5770 and sunset September 27, 2009 - nightfall September 28, 2009. Probably the most important of Judaism's high holy days, the culmination of the Days of Awe , that begins with Rosh Hashanah. It was established in Leviticus 23:26-32. "Yom Kippur" means "Day of Atonement." It is a day set aside to "afflict the soul," to atone for the sins of the past year. Themes of the day include repentance, reconciliation, asking for forgiveness. "Atonement" can be broken down into: "At-one-ment", implying that when we forgive and are forgiven, we are brought back into relationship with one another.

• Blessing of the Animals: Often observed the Sunday closest to October 4. In the Roman Catholic tradition, Oct. 4 is the Feast of St. Francis of Assisi. St. Francis (1182-1226) was a monk who founded the contemporary order of Franciscans. He was known for his vow of poverty and his special connection to animals, among many other things. Many Unitarian Universalists have picked up on the tradition of blessing animals, particularly pets, on this day.
St. Francis may receive little attention at this service, but usually his prayer is used. Some congregations celebrate this service out of doors and people bring their pets to the service, others bring photographs of their pets; others have their pets blessed by naming them.

• Children's Sabbath: National Observance of Children's Sabbath unites tens of thousands of religious congregations of many faiths in speaking out and acting faithfully for children and families. Many UU congregations will celebrate the Children's Sabbath through worship services, social action or special activities. Some will be held on an October date and others will be held at other times during the church year. Endorsed by the UUA and UU Service Committee, The Children's Sabbath calls us to pause and deeply consider, "How are our children? Are we putting children first?" and to then let our answers guide our actions as people of faith. During this service children usher, lead prayers, and preach the sermon. Children's Sabbath is organized by the Children's Defense Fund.

• United Nations Day: October 24. Unitarian Universalism's sixth principle: "The goal of world community with peace, liberty and justice for all" can make this a special day to observe religiously. Themes may include: war and peace; international cooperation; world events; and global community.

• All Souls Day (Día de Los Muertos): Observed on the Sunday between October 27 and November 2). Also called the Day of the Dead, All Souls Day is a day of remembrance for friends and loved ones who have passed away. It is a Roman Catholic day of commemoration and has prior origins in the ancient Pagan Festival of the Dead--which celebrated the Pagan belief that the souls of the dead would return for a meal with the family. Some themes: remembrance, grief, cycle of life and death, honoring those who have gone before us.

• Thanksgiving: Gratitude as a spiritual practice. Do you think there is a calmness to a life lived in gratitude, a quiet joy? In the hurried pace of our lives today do you know people who have achieved or are trying to achieve calmness and quiet joy? How have they changed their priorities and the life choices they make? Sunday before Thanksgiving. Themes can include gratitude for loved ones, gathering the family together, breaking bread together, Native American perspective on the holiday, Puritans, remembering those less fortunate. Some congregations celebrate bread communion at this service. This ritual can include the breaking and passing around of bread throughout the congregation. Congregants eat the bread, or feed it to one another, while being led in a reflection about gratitude, sharing and being together in community.

WINTER
• International Human Rights Day: On Dec. 10, 1948, the U.N. General Assembly adopted its Universal Declaration on Human Rights. A celebration of our First Principle of the Inherent Worth and Dignity of all people, everywhere.

• Winter Solstice: Usually December 21. For some Unitarian Universalists who have reservations about Christmas, the Winter Solstice has come to be the focal point of the winter holiday season. This day has become important to both humanists and Pagans, who can find common ground in celebrating this occasion. Themes can include light amid darkness; the death of nature and the cycle of life; the darkness just before the dawn; the miracle of every birth.

• Hanukka/Festival of Lights: This Jewish festival commemorates a victory in the Jewish struggle for religious freedom and re-dedication of the Temple of Jerusalem to Elohim. Menorah candles are lit. It is a time to reconsider that to which we dedicate ourselves. Whenever the word "dedication" is used in a spiritual context, it usually insists on some sort of change in our lives at which we must work to bring to fruition. That is why many of the faithful flee in search of a religion that requires less of them. Hanukkah insists on dedication based on the recognition of everyday miracles -- happenings that already take place around us that require a heightened awareness and a keener focus. In embracing this dedication we become the difference that makes us better people and the world a better place.

• Christmas Eve: December 24. Frequently a well-attended service. Often an evening service. It often includes "lessons and carols" and sometimes a story that conveys the spirit of Christmas. Some UU congregations include a candle-lighting ritual in the service, in which the church lights are dimmed and people pass a flame from candle to candle until everyone is holding a lit candle.

• Kwanzaa: December 26-January 1. This is an African American celebration that focuses on the traditional African values of family, community responsibility, commerce, and self-improvement. It is not considered to be a substitute for Christmas. It is a time of reaffirming African-American people, their ancestors and culture. In some congregations, candles that are red, black and green are lit during a Sunday service and the worship leader tells the story of Kwanzaa.

• Muharram/Muslim New Yea≈& A'ashurah: Dec. 28 evening to Jan. 7 evening. A'ashurah is the day that Shi'a Muslims mourn the death of Al-Hussain ibn Ali, the grandson of the Prophet Muhammad and the third Shi'a Imam.

• New Year's Day: Sunday closest to January 1. An opportunity to celebrate the beginning of a new year. Themes can include reflection upon the year that has just passed; hope for the promise of the year to come; resolutions to change; the passage of time; hope; expectation; dreaming of a creating a better tomorrow. Some congregations celebrate the Fire Communion Ceremony at this service. In this service, congregants burn pieces of paper containing brief descriptions of something they most wish to leave behind and light a candle for a new hope for the coming year.

• Fire Communion Ceremony: In this service, congregants burn pieces of paper containing brief descriptions of something they most wish to leave behind and light a candle for a new hope for the coming year.

• Martin Luther King Jr. Sunday: The Sunday before the MLK holiday, in mid-January. Themes include: King, his life and activities; the civil rights movement; anti-racism; non-violence; social change; activism; ethic of love. Anniversary of the Integration of Arlington Schools: On February 2, 1959, four seventh grade students entered through the front doors of Stratford Junior High School. In jan 1959, VA state supreme court ruled that VA’s Massive Resistance campaign to integration of public schools was unconstitutional St. Valentine's Day The theme of Love: How do we define love. The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.

• Black History: Usually in February, for Black History Month; or in March, as James Reeb was killed on 3/11/65 and Whitney Young died on 3/11/71. This service is an opportunity for many congregations to address social justice, racial justice, white privilege, racial identity. Whitney Young (1921-1971) was an African American UU who was executive director of the National Urban League and an activist in the civil rights movement. James Reeb (1927-1965) was a white UU minister who was killed in Selma, Alabama, while supporting the civil rights movement there. Justice Sunday 2010 — Sunday, March 28, 2010 Spirituality without social action risks disconnection and narcissism. Activism without grounding in spiritual practice and reflection risks ineffectiveness and burnout. How do we cultivate an engaged spirituality? Each spring, in conjunction with the Unitarian Universalist Service Committee , UU congregations nationwide stand together, and set aside one Sunday for worship and education focused on one pressing human rights issue.This year we celebrate the 61st anniversary of the Declaration of Human Rights.

• Anniversary of the slaying of Rev. James Reeb, (January 1, 1927 to March 11, 1965) Rev. Reeb was an American White Unitarian Universalist minister from Boston, Massachusetts who, while marching for civil rights in Selma, Alabama, was beaten to death by segregationists. He was 38 years old and Assistant Minister at All Souls Church in Washington, D.C. He was born in Wichita, Kansas. As a Unitarian Universalist minister, Reeb was active in the civil rights movement, and encouraged his parishioners to do the same. With his wife and four children, he lived in poor black neighborhoods where he felt he could do the most good. A member of the Southern Christian Leadership Conference (SCLC), Reeb took part in the Selma to Montgomery protest march in 1965. While in Selma on March 9, Reeb was attacked by a white mob armed with clubs, which inflicted massive head injuries. He died in a Birmingham hospital two days later. His death resulted in a national outcry against the activities of white racists in the Deep South, although some expressed indignation that it took the death of a white man to incite such a national outcry. This is to be compared with the case of Jimmie Lee Jackson, who was shot by police in Marion, Alabama two weeks earlier while protecting his mother from a beating; his case attracted much less national attention. President Lyndon B. Johnson declared the events in Selma "an American tragedy," which, he said, should strengthen people's determination "to bring full and equal and exact justice to all of our people." Johnson's voting rights proposal reached Congress the Monday after Reeb's death. Watch a video about James Reeb.

SPRING
• Youth Sunday: Variable date in Spring. This service is often led by the youth of the congregation (adolescent age). They may plan it with their youth adviser, and/or with the minister or worship coordinator. Themes of the service vary from year to year.

• Spring Membership: This is a service to honor the people who have recently become members of the congregation. Some congregations hold this service twice a year; others once. This service often invites those who have recently "signed the book" to come before the congregation with the minister or worship leader. The new members might share a responsive reading with the congregation or recite a bond of fellowship or covenant together. The focus on membership might be a small part of the overall worship service. Or, the theme of membership might pervade the entire service with the recognition of new members being a piece of that.

• Spring Equinox: Usually March 21. Spring themes, including: lengthening of the days; nature coming to life again; joy; hopefulness; reawakening to ourselves after a long winter.

• Passover Seder: Variable dates. 2009 Passover Dates: Sunset First Seder - Night of Monday, March 29 2010 - nightfall Eighth Day - Tuesday, April 6 2010 (5770); first day of Pesah First Seder - Night of Monday, March 29 is first day of Pesah Passover (Pesach) is the most commonly celebrated holiday among Jews. It lasts for seven days. The primary observances of the holiday are related to the Exodus from Egypt after generations of slavery. This story is told in Exodus, Ch. 1-15; many of the Passover observances are instituted in Chs. 12-15. On the first two nights of Passover, the Seder meal is eaten. Some UU congregations will have a Passover Seder on one of those days, or a date close to then. Many of the customs and traditions of the Seder are observed. The Seder meal sometimes takes place in a church member's home, as opposed to the meeting place itself.

• Buddha’s Birthday: Wesak --- typically early May Time - Talent - Treasure Sunday — usually sometime in early Spring. This service is often coordinated with the Stewardship committee, to include some of the concepts that the congregation is focusing on that year. Themes include: stewardship of the community; giving of our Time, Talent and Treasure as spiritual practice; abundance/scarcity; valuing what we say is important to us; the role of money in our lives; giving/receiving; Luke 12:34: "where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."

• Easter: Variable date. Spring date will occur on Sunday 4th April 2010. Often one of the most well-attended services of the year. The resurrection theme of the holiday is often more metaphorical than literal. Many kinds of resurrection can be emphasized: rebirth of nature; resurrecting dreams and hopes; resurrecting dead relationships. In a general sense, the ultimate triumph of life over death. Hallelujah!

• Earth Day: April 22, 2010 — Now that Global Warming is recognized as more than "An Inconvenient Truth" Unitarian Universalism's seventh principle: "Respect for the interdependent web of all existence of which we are a part" makes this a day to celebrate religiously. Themes can include: earth-centered spirituality; connecting to the divine through nature; care taking of the environment; the interdependent web. Living our Seventh Principle. The original Earth Day was on the March equinox. MARCH 20 is still the International Earth Day. In many countries Earth Day is April 22, 2010.

• Mother's Day: Second Sunday of May. The following is quoted from of Rev. Stefan Jonassen in his "A Canadian Unitarian Almanac And Liturgical Calendar" "In 1872, Unitarian Julia Ward Howe began advocating the creation of a "Mother's Day for Peace" to be held on June 2 each year. The following year, eighteen cities held such a gathering. Bostonians continued to observe the day for more than a decade, while some cities continued the observance until the turn of the century, when the annual "Mother's Day for Peace" appears to have died out. In 1907, Anna Jarvis, a Methodist, began a campaign to establish a permanent Mother's Day. By the following year, the YMCA had taken up the cause and, in 1914, Woodrow Wilson signed a congressional resolution establishing Mother's Day in the United States. In time, the day came to be marked in many other countries. Ms Jarvis was troubled by the commercialization of the day, saying, "I wanted it to be a day of sentiment, not profit." Inalterably opposed to the sale of flowers (but not the giving of homegrown blossoms), she also lamented the advent of the Mother's Day card, describing it as "a poor excuse for the letter you are too lazy to write." Interestingly enough, Mother's Day is the most heavily attended Sunday in North American churches, outside of the Christmas and Easter seasons! In Unitarian Universalist congregations, the day has increasingly taken on a sense of being a day to mark the contributions of all women."

• Memorial Day: The Sunday before the last Monday in May. Often a lightly attended service, due to the holiday weekend. Nevertheless, it is an important occasion to memorialize loved ones who have been lost, in war or in other ways. Themes can include: remembering people who have died; the power of memory; ritualizing our memories; gratitude for those who have gone before us; the cost of war. • Partner Church Observation: Variable dates For congregations who have partner churches in other parts of the world (such as Transylvania or India), this is an opportunity to focus on that relationship and on the other congregation. The liaisons to the partner church are often involved in planning and participating in the service.

• Flower Communion: Variable date that is often sometime in June. The Flower communion service was created by Norbert Capek (1870- 1942), who founded the Unitarian Church in Czechoslovakia. In the service, people are asked to bring a flower of their choice and place them in vases or baskets. After the service, as people left the church, they went to the vase and each took a flower other than the one that they had brought. The significance of the flower communion is that as no two flowers are alike, so no two people are alike, yet each has a contribution to make. Together the different flowers form a beautiful bouquet. By exchanging flowers, we show our willingness to walk together in our search for truth, disregarding all that might divide us. Each person takes home a flower brought by someone else - thus symbolizing our shared celebration in community.

• Coming Age: Usually in late Spring. This service is often a culmination of a coming of age program that 8th graders have been participating in for the year or for half a year. The youth, their mentors, and the program teachers often come before the congregation for recognition. Often, the 8th graders are given a gift to celebrate their rite of passage into adolescence.

• Children's Religious Education Sunday: This is often a June service that focuses on children and the children's RE program. Often, it is organized by the Director of RE and RE teachers, perhaps with help from parents and the minister or worship coordinator. Children may sing, perform a skit, share their reflections on a topic. One of the intentions is to narrow the divide that sometimes exists between the community of adults who attend the main worship service and the children and teachers who are in Sunday school at that time.

• Father's Day: The third Sunday in June. A time to celebrate the sacred vocation of fatherhood and the larger themes of paternal figures in our lives.

• Anniversary of Loving v. Virginia decision: June 12. Mildred Delores Jeter and Richard Perry Loving married in Washington, DC in 1958 because interracial marriage was illegal in Virginia, where they lived. Mrs. Loving was of both African and Native American descent. Mr. Loving was white. When they returned to their home in Caroline County, Virginia, police arrested them for breaking the law. The Lovings pleaded guilty and were sentenced to 25 years in prison but the sentence was suspended as long as they left Virginia. They moved to Washington DC. In 1963, the Lovings began legal action to defend their right to marry and to end the laws that forbade it. In the four year struggle, the Presbytarian church and the Unitarian Universalist Assocation took stands against laws forbidding interracial marriages and came out in full support of the unions. The Roman Catholic Church also proclaimed its support to end the ban. In 1967, the U.S. Supreme Court ruled that Virginia's anti-miscegenation statute violated both the Due Process Clause and the Equal Protection Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment. Despite this Supreme Court ruling, such laws remained on the books, although unenforced, in several states until 2000, when Alabama became the last state to repeal its law against mixed-race marriage. Mrs. Loving died in 2008 at age 68, and Mr. Loving, 52, in 1975. In 2008, activists in the LGBT community began applying the Loving ruling to aid the marriage equality movement for same-sex partnerships, if courts allow the Equal Protection Clause to be used.

SUMMER
• Teacher Recognition Sunday: Often in late spring, near the end of the church school year. A service to honor and thank those who serve the congregation by teaching Sunday school. The teachers usually come to the front of the church at some point in the service and are formally recognized for their contributions by the whole congregation. Themes can include: spiritual growth; education; religious community; ways of serving the community.

• Graduation Recognition: Sometime in June. This is a chance to recognize and congratulate members of the congregation who are graduating from high school. Often, this is only a part of the overall service. High school graduation can mark a time when young adults are about to be less involved in the church community—many move out of the home and head to college or the workforce. This service is a chance to send them off with a blessing and remind them that they always have a spiritual home in the congregation. Also a chance to honor them for their hard work and perseverance in graduating.

• Summer the Solstice: Summer themes, including: warmth; beauty; abundant life of nature; slowing down; taking time to appreciate beauty; vacation.

• Labor Day: First Monday in September. The Sunday of this long weekend is often lightly attended because it's considered the last weekend of the summer. But it is a good occasion to reflect on the themes of vocation and those who work at jobs that allow us to receive goods and services. Also appropriate for themes of economic justice. In many congregations, this is the last of the smaller, more intimate services of the summer season.

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